Nobody's perfect. I realley am impressed by things like paragliding, parcour and so on, by don't have the conditions to do things like this. I even don't have the money for the most things, but that's another story. The "XxwhybelivexX"-girl seems to want some attention she don't get, so she's making a drama out of her life, showing this "drama" with big efford to everyone, with a lot of deviations of questionable content (in her poems and so on). She's just the kind of little poser I hate the most, because they just try to get everyones attention and to "be" someone, they are't. To lazy to work for the own worth and to stupid to see that it is like that. And if you try to show this to them, with the kind of question I commented to her, they block like "XxwhybelivexX" and try to not think about the circumstances...Well, she won't get lucky in her life.
Psychology get's easy in the right moment when you are able to think objective and critical about yourself, without hesitation. If you can reflect yourself correctly you can reflect others by their behavior, their look, their words and so on. It's the hardest to do this with yourself but after this you may be able to see through others like through yourself (but it's a different difference from person to person).
My speech is realley important for me too. But english isn't my mothertongue so it is difficult to reach a high level of language. In my mothertongue German I'm able to write more complicated sentences than most of my friends or my family, like a buerocrate (don't know how this is written correctly), and even to write down poem's and so on on a high level, I think. But nothing realley special.
In my mind it is to rare that people want a high level of language, they stumble over the most easy sentences and ask what's their meaning. So bitter.